What makes a relationship stronger and healthier? The question produces various entangled answers. it is a subjective phenomenon. It depends on an individual’s discretion that what constitutes best for his/her life. On universal grounds, relation is too fragile to stand without any effort yet too strong to hold two together for centuries. It is a weak relation because it is not based on blood ties and it is strong because it stands on the premises of love. The relations based on mere a vow is considered the strongest in the world but there are some traits that prolong the life of relationship and make it healthier and stronger. A 4C1T formula: Compatibility, Compassion, Care, Companionship and Trust works amazingly.
Rishtay with no blood ties demand something special to keep the relation. To tie the hearts there needs compatibility: feeling of sympathetic understanding. Sympathy is a great characteristic in human being that can make another irrespective of the relation a grateful to you. Such trait is highly recommended particularly for the matrimonial relationship.
The other meaning of the term is love and the love includes all appraisals as hopes, good deeds, favors, and pity. Compassion is a complete package that works like a glue to create a bond between the two. Compassion is the key to win the hearts.
No matter you are in love with her or not do care for her/him just because he/she is your spouse and you two are in a sacred relationship. Love is nothing but a practice. If you keep caring one for longer period one day it is surety that you will fall in love with her/ him. Care can heal the broken souls and gives a simulation of love.
Friendship is the base of any relationship to stay longer. Build love on the ground of companionship. Make her/him your friend first so that he/she can find nobody else enough trust worthy than you.
After Shaadi relationship depends on the level of trust. Once it is broken the game is over. Build it by acts, mere words can’t help you develop a stronger and healthier relationship. Avoid doubting and shouting. Trust what she/ he says. The norm of trusting will make you both fall for each other even stronger than before.